Welcome! this is actually my first post on this blog and i hope I'll be able to do a whole lot of stuff with it.
I got talking with an acquaintance (male) sometimes ago, actually this guy asked me out and I had to let him know some things before accepting to date him but when we got to the issue of sex before marriage he just said it wasn’t a big deal at all because it’s a normal stuff that should happen between people who are in love. I sat back to listen to his views; he said sex is an expression of love and it helps love to grow. He also said it’s a sign of commitment and it builds intimacy.
But come to think of it, why should sex be used as a tool to cement a relationship. Do you think giving your body off to man all in the name of love will make him marry you?
A friend of mine had been in a relationship for about six years and at this time she had seen the guy as her Mr. Right only to find out later that the guy was involved with some other girl, got her pregnant but later aborted it after my friend made a decision to stop sex. So do you think keeping a relationship without sex involved is really possible?
5 comments:
This is very interesting cos it's one of the things that a lot of people talk about these days. it's unfortunate that the media and the world publicizes sex as a vital part of a relationship. but it's not supposed to be that way. God intended for sex to come AFTER marriage. am at a point right now where it seems that i would have to have that talk very soon... lol.
It is so possible 2 keep a r'ship without sex.
But, d desire 4 sex will surely come. my view is, if u cant hold it, get married.
A "relationship" without sex is absolutely possible. Please do not make the mistake most of us made! Any guy who feel sex is a show of love is not the right guy for you! Like Oluwadee said "if u cant hold it, get married".
I wish you the best!
it is possible to be keep a relationship without sex, whether agreed or not...
a r'ship without sex is better, it gives the guy a reason to be stable n commited.it is very difficult but possible....only a few can withstand the tempation.
welcome to blogsville!
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